Do you know that you have a personal computer attached in you, day and night?? ^^;

Yes, your magnificent brain.

Our human brain, that incredibly powerful personal computer control center that each of us has, is capable of doing for you anything reasonable that you’d like itto do. But you have to know how to treat it. If you treat it just right, and carefully give it the right directions, it will do the right thing-it will work for you in the right way. But if you give your mental computer the wrong directions it will act on those wrong directions; it will continue to respond to the negative programming that you and the rest of the world have been giving it without even being aware of it.

I like this disclaimer very much, especially the hazard sign!! ^^;

So, what are the questions that you should ask yourself before making any changes of your life (Have you wonder that before?).

Try these series of questions, I know most of them are very lame, but they are effective to reveal the true-self of you when answering them honestly.

Hope they may help:

1) What are the three things I most want to achieve?

2) Why are they so important to you?

3) Which do I want to deal with first and why?

4) When is it realistic for me to have achieved each of them?

5) Where must I start and what are the first, small steps I must take?

6) How can I measure my progress and keep on track?

7) Who else do I need to involve?

What can they gain by helping me?

9) How will I know I have achieved them and how will I celebrate?

10) Once I have got there, what might I then want to do next?

Your answer will help you understand quite clearly the direction in which you want to head. For one thing, you are introducing your own values because what is important to you may not be as vital to someone else in your situation. You will also be starting to identify the people around you whose support will make the whole process much easier.^^;